बड़े होने का बुखार !!!

No, I’m not talking about growing up of an individual. I’m talking about the people who suddenly self-elevate themselves on account of tiny successes. They reach cloud nine with a speed faster than the speed of light! {Yeah such phenomena can violate laws of nature} And once there, others who failed to reach there are considered unworthy by the new demi-gods!
The path to reach cloud nine is not unique. Everyone can be propelled by different forces of varying proportions. Some common forces are:
Admission into an fancy college, new bike, fancy car, rich father, influential relatives, acquiring a girlfriend/boyfriend, hint of a foreign trip, better friends (as compared to the existing ones), better result, job, new and costly accessories & any other blah blah. The list is actually endless.
Once when greatness is achieved, his/her majesty stops interacting with the commoners who at times prior to the ascendancy were inseparable entities in his/her life. They even change their lifestyle and all other things that were associated with the previous life. So, others who were not able to get up to that platform feel left out suddenly. It feels discriminating, then embarrassing and then disgusting. In the end we stop bothering about such individuals and the relationship dies after turning sour.
Such, experiences have occurred to me, you, he, she, anyone and everyone. It’s a complex chain. We hurt others and then some other hurt us and the cycle continues.
My parents always said,

নিজেকে যে বড় বলে বড় সে নয় |
লোকে যাকে বড় বলে বড় সে হয় |

{ One who thinks himself to be great is never great.
One whom people think as a great is actually great. }
I believe everyone has been taught this in some form or the other. But in due course of life, all these become worthless.
Actually the art of thinking oneself as great and discrimination is learnt from this society which we live in. The society is based on the unhealthy unbalance of up & down, rich & poor, educated & illiterate, boy & girl, this & that. So, one idolizing himself will tend to discriminate others. This will lead to dissociation of relationships which end in absolute alienation and elimination and lead to the divisive life which our elders live and soon we will follow!
So for the common good of the society, let’s put an end to this nonsense and nip the evil in the bud itself. Let’s work for the ‘White Globe’ thought up by Auro, a world without boundaries, without discrimination, without hatred!!!